Saturday, April 30, 2011

Then and ONLY then you know


When you don't have the urge to seek options
when you don't want to turn back and let curiousity lead you to your past
when you understand the value of friendship, love, and loyalty
when you can talk without going to bed angry or giving your back to your partner
when you no longer feel the need to hold people on the back burner "just in case"
when you can walk away from temptation
when you will say whatever you have to honestly rather than sugar coat things to protect the persons feelings
when you KNOW that theres no time for games
when you address people who disrespect or cross the line/boundaries
when you absolutely care
when you wake up and go to bed with them on your mind
when you cant be apart without atleast speaking 
when you acknowledge all communication not just selectively 
when you understand each others life styles and jobs
when your friends know each other and there are no secrets 
when you DONT walk out of the room to take a call
when you give your attention to only them and don't feel obligated to stroke other people's ego's 
when you can have the most fun doing nothing or something out of the ordinary 
when you cant sleep at night until you hear "i love you" 
when you can spend time with them, their friends, and then some without feeling forced..and enjoy it
when you completely trust one another and there are no reasons not to
when you dont get angry over nothing...instead you discuss it like adults
when you LOVE SOMEONE you can relate to all of the above.

If you don't ... it isn't meant to be. 

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